Sending someone dirty pictures can be dangerous. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying not to send them, but I am saying that there are appropriate and inappropriate times to do so.
We all have seen or heard about nude celebrity photos being leaked. When people send them, such thoughts such as, I’m not a celebrity, why would anyone leak them on to the Internet, may come up. In reality, some people don’t have respect, it can happen and that’s why I would only advise sending those naughty pictures to a special someone if you’re in a relationship with.
There are also definite times when you shouldn’t send another person dirty pictures. For example, let’s say one day you meet a girl, and your intentions are good and she gives you her number. You think, cool, she’s cute, let’s see what’s up. The both of you get to texting and two hours later, there they are, half-naked pictures of this chick that you just met on your phone.
So, what do you think of this girl? One, in fewer than three hours of knowing her she’s desperately seeking your attention. Two, there’s a possibility she’s crazy. Three, let’s just say it, she wants to have sex, because why else would you get those explicit pictures that soon into knowing her. If you knew this girl for less than half a day I can almost guarantee those three things will be proved correct within the next few days.
Fortunately, by sending dirty pictures that soon into knowing someone, you can really get to know a girl’s intentions in a matter of moments.
Ladies, when you send these sexy pictures to someone, it’s obvious that you want to do more than just talk. This doesn’t mean you’ll get what you initially wanted. Honestly, it’s a little bit of a turn off. OK, OK, OK…let me take that back, it’s not necessarily a turn off, but we do know that if we wanted, you would be there to provide us with the power to…well, not have a conversation.
I’m not opposed to receiving those sexy pictures, but being in a relationship I feel it’s OK to ask your significant other for them or even send them yourself. Don’t be ashamed of that. As long as the trust between the two of you is there and you trust and know your partner won’t go around showing people, you’re safe. If you’re in a relationship and sending each other dirty pictures, why would you want to show another person your significant other’s photo?
I know many of us have saved pictures, but saving them on your phone and even your computer is highly dangerous. Trust me when I say that I’ve had those mini heart attacks when my phone isn’t locked and someone grabs it and goes straight to my photos. (Don’t act like it’s never happened to you).
Despite dying a few times myself from thinking that people would see them, I finally got smart and found an app to help me with my invasion of privacy problem. While surfing on my iPhone, I stumbled across the wondrous app called Keepsafe. It lets me transfer the photos to the app, delete them safely from my photo album and keep a lock to the application they are safely stored in. This is a must have for you naughty nosey people out there.
My job is not to tell you what or what not to do, but to lay out the pros and cons of your actions. It’s all about what message you are sending and how the other person interprets it. I believe some men and women need to know that sending nude pictures right away can send different people different messages. Some people can like it, but some people may get turned off by it. You just need to be smart about the decisions you are making.
If you’re in a relationship, honestly, do what you have to do and more power to you for spicing up your sex life. Trust is key, because if the person you’re sending those special pictures to isn’t trustworthy, be ready for the consequences. I’ve seen it happen a few times before, so I do know it happens. Ladies and gentlemen, just be cautious.
