Confused

Dear Johnny,

I'm dating this great guy who opens doors for me, takes me out to places I like to go and actually listens to me when I talk. There is just one thing that I don't know what to do about: He drinks too much and sometimes even shows up to a date buzzed. He's not angry or mean, he's just really goofy and sometimes rude. I don't know what to do.

--Confused

Barhopper

Dear Johnny,

I’m 28 years old and I go to bars and clubs to meet women. I often find myself wondering if I will ever find the right woman doing this. I have always met women at bars and clubs and none of the relationships last longer than a few months. They usually cost me a great deal of money as well. What can I do to change this and find myself someone special?

Miss

Dear Johnny,

I met a guy about a week ago at a bar. We had a great time, drank a lot, and ended up back at my place for a night cap. The next morning I found myself confused and embarrassed. Does this mean I have to date him? Am I a jerk if I don't continue a relationship with him? Help me because it's been a week and it's been filled with confusing texts and awkward conversations.

--Miss