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The Skyline View's sex/relationship advice column
A. Bonne
Date created: 2/14/05 Section: FEATURES
Dear Bonne,
I seem to always end up with girls that want long term relationships. The problem is, that's not what I want. I'd really like to find girls that are interested in "friends with benefits" or casual relationships.
How do I find girls like this? What kind of personality do they have (in general)? What kind of interests would they have? I've already learned that traditional and closed minded girls are less likely to accept FWBs.
Thanks,
Friendless with benefits
Dear Friendless,
There is not a certain personality or interest (that I know of) that applies exclusively to girls who are into casual sex so I can't really help you there. However, I can help you to avoid hooking up with the wrong girls. I know it's going to sound lame, but don't knock it till you try it: COMMUNICATE WITH THEM! The only way to avoid getting involved with someone who wants something different than you is to first find out what they want and also explain what you are looking for. That way you will know what you're getting involved in before anything happens and you can choose to not move forward. I hope this helps, but just in case it doesn't, try the clubs, those girls are usually up for anything. Not to mention, girls that already have a man won't be looking for anything serious because they already have it. However, keep in mind that it would bring in a whole new batch of problems that you probably don't want to deal with.
Always use a rubber,
A. Bonne
Askbonne@yahoo.com
I seem to always end up with girls that want long term relationships. The problem is, that's not what I want. I'd really like to find girls that are interested in "friends with benefits" or casual relationships.
How do I find girls like this? What kind of personality do they have (in general)? What kind of interests would they have? I've already learned that traditional and closed minded girls are less likely to accept FWBs.
Thanks,
Friendless with benefits
Dear Friendless,
There is not a certain personality or interest (that I know of) that applies exclusively to girls who are into casual sex so I can't really help you there. However, I can help you to avoid hooking up with the wrong girls. I know it's going to sound lame, but don't knock it till you try it: COMMUNICATE WITH THEM! The only way to avoid getting involved with someone who wants something different than you is to first find out what they want and also explain what you are looking for. That way you will know what you're getting involved in before anything happens and you can choose to not move forward. I hope this helps, but just in case it doesn't, try the clubs, those girls are usually up for anything. Not to mention, girls that already have a man won't be looking for anything serious because they already have it. However, keep in mind that it would bring in a whole new batch of problems that you probably don't want to deal with.
Always use a rubber,
A. Bonne
Askbonne@yahoo.com
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